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Have you ever heard of someone disliking a product on a person and telling that person not out of rudeness but simply stating an opinion? I have and sometimes people's reactions are not too receptive to the truth, understood. However, what happens when the stating the truth gets ugly and an individual is harassed by others for a making a comment that someone disagrees with? I would imagine that someone would state their opinion and be done with the topic but sometimes people can get offended without understanding the gist of a particular statement.
I am a huge advocate of admitting when I am wrong but I am an even bigger advocate of stating one's opinion without bias, no matter the issue. I understand that because some people don't have the education or the tact to accept one's statement without degrading the person's character but I do think that we all know that it is best to resolve a perhaps offensive statement between two people without others being involved. The best way to patch up a situation like this would be a gentle conversation rather than using the same technique to bash someone that a person supposedly is bashing. Guess what? You are not better.
This post may seem a bit personal because it is, I'm speaking from experience and since then I have taken the precautionary measures to prohibit this type of situation from arising again because of some individual's grandiose complex and inability to accept the truth. However, I did want to hear my reader's opinion of a situation where telling the truth has ever put you in hot water with a group of individuals without realizing it was even that big of an issue.
So tell me, has your truth telling ever been an issue for you? Tell me in the comments!
Have you ever heard of someone disliking a product on a person and telling that person not out of rudeness but simply stating an opinion? I have and sometimes people's reactions are not too receptive to the truth, understood. However, what happens when the stating the truth gets ugly and an individual is harassed by others for a making a comment that someone disagrees with? I would imagine that someone would state their opinion and be done with the topic but sometimes people can get offended without understanding the gist of a particular statement.
I am a huge advocate of admitting when I am wrong but I am an even bigger advocate of stating one's opinion without bias, no matter the issue. I understand that because some people don't have the education or the tact to accept one's statement without degrading the person's character but I do think that we all know that it is best to resolve a perhaps offensive statement between two people without others being involved. The best way to patch up a situation like this would be a gentle conversation rather than using the same technique to bash someone that a person supposedly is bashing. Guess what? You are not better.
This post may seem a bit personal because it is, I'm speaking from experience and since then I have taken the precautionary measures to prohibit this type of situation from arising again because of some individual's grandiose complex and inability to accept the truth. However, I did want to hear my reader's opinion of a situation where telling the truth has ever put you in hot water with a group of individuals without realizing it was even that big of an issue.
So tell me, has your truth telling ever been an issue for you? Tell me in the comments!
I am confused. You said something very hateful and hurtful and you are playing victim? That's cute.
ReplyDeleteFuthermore, we are grown, adults. You said what you said and everyone saw it. Own up to it, move on. No one is talking about it but you. Just hope you didnt burn bridges dissing bloggers for a few clicks on your own site.
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Deletelast i checked this is MY blog and I can write about whatever my heart desires...
ReplyDeleteYeah you can write whatever you want but the fact that you wont own up to your poor choice of wording and the fact that you hurt someone. Doesnt bother you in the slightest. So yeah this is your blog, you can do what you want, blah blah blah.. but that attitude alone proves that you dont write as a platform for others, you write for yourself in hopes that you can peddle free samples one day. You are pathetic. And the fact that you think calling someone ugly is 'telling the truth'. You are internally ugly.
ReplyDeletethanks for visiting the blog! :)
DeleteOnly a weak individual gets upset over someones opinion. But getting your friends to attack someone over it is silly, laughable and childish.
ReplyDeleteIts hilarious when you accuse someone of doing a certain thing, but then your doing the exact same thing! Makes sense??? ℓƠ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ℓ
ReplyDeleteDo I smell a twitter gangsta.... a duck lipped phony with crazy eyes or a colorblind wench with tadpole eyebrows? Why are you anonymous? Please this is all these chicks do... gossip maliciously on twitter thinking its cute but if you say anything they don't like they attack en masse. Don't let it get you boo. Please I highly doubt you called her ugly.. even if you did she needs to get a thicker skin delete and move on for pete's sake
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ReplyDeleteTwitter gangsta's? Duck lipped crazy eyes or tadpole eyebrows? I wonder who's posting tho. why are you here anonymously? I thought ya"ll were brave, talking about people all day on twitter. Please learn to take the criticism your so willing to dish out. TBH that girl DOES look a mess most the time
ReplyDeleteWow... I don't know what was said here ladies but I hope it can be resolved. I am almost didn't want to comment?!?!?! Geeeeeeeeeesh
ReplyDeleteToo many people hide instead of facing the truth. I look at anonomous posts that are mean-spirited and shake my head. I say post your name and email your number so we can talk this out like adults.
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